Basic, but awesome!

So, you've decided you're not looking for something that moves, makes noise, or cheers you on while you reach your climax... Cool. There's a dildo for that! It's called the Siren. It's a basic, no frills, rubber lover --- and its freaking fantastic!

The Siren is roughly the same shape and size as the average penis. However, it does have a slightly more pronounced head. This allows for better angling toward that ever elusive g-spot... Which, by the way, is usually located behind the clitoris. In order to reach that soft, sweet spot, you'll need something that's angled slightly. Once you find it, you'll never need help again...

Anyhow, the average penis is around 5 and a half inches long, the siren is approximately 8 inches from the tip to the bottom of the base. Which, is slightly larger than average... It's also decently propotioned in circumfrence. In fact, it's quite a hand full... For comparison sake, I've photographed it beside a standard 7 inch tablet.

This rubber dildo is pretty stiff, and will not bend easily. Because its on a broad base, it's perfectly suited for solo sessions while squatting down. However, I feel that it's best when put to use with a partner, a-la strap on. I'm not well versed in this area, but I'm assured that it's amazing! As for solo sessions, I guarantee it'll knock your socks off!

Check it out...

Sample provided for review.

Punishment never felt so good!

Check out my beautiful new bondage system...

This restraint system is similar to one that I had tried previously, the UTIMI; Under the Bed Bondage Restraint System. That bondage system was a bit too rough around the edges for me, so my good friend at LoveBar sent me another to try out... the Utimi Lint Combination Under the Bed Bondage Restraints System.

 This is much more my style!

Ok, so I'm a freak, but I also love sensuality & comfort. My last restraint system was intimidating and a bit too industrial for my liking. This set, is perfect though... The cuffs are "fur" lined, and feature Velcro closures. Although these are are softer features than my previous set-up had, the straps themselves are still the same broad, tightly woven nylon threads. 

How it works: 

The set up for this system is identical to the previous. The mkst effective method of installation being; placing the entire system under the box spring and mattress, and pulling the 4 straps out. Going under the bed, as directed, was definitely easier, but it left the straps with entirely too much give. As I said before, "The whole point of using a restraint system, is to keep a person restrained in one position. If there's too much give on the straps, you can easily move around, and that defeats the whole purpose."

I feel that this particular restraint system is  most definitely geared more toward those who are into the softer, sexier, S&M style bondage. However, if you like the rougher, more hard core bondage, UTIMI definitely has a set up for that too!

UTIMI Bondage Kit 

Sample provided for review. 

Sex after 30; The in's & outs

OK, it's no longer a secret, we all know that 30 is the new 20. However, those old rumors about losing your sexuality, and no longer having a drive or desire for sex after 30, are still running rampant. In fact, it's a common misconception among young people, that women 30+ have " lost that loving feeling".

Apparently, the opposite is rumored of men. Men, it's said, have double the libido after age 30... In my experience, it's actually the exact opposite! Men slow down, and ladies, we get buck wild... That's why it's the dirty 30's. Of course, there are exceptions to every rule, so if you're following the trend--- thats perfectly ok too! Do what makes you feel good!

So, what about married couples? Yes, it's true, after some time we all slow down. That's normal! After a few years, you know your partner. You know what works for them, and when you do it... You do it big. Honestly, this is when it really is all about quality, not necessarily quantity.

Yes --- sex gets better with age! We become more comfortable in our own skin, and more in tune with our inner workings. We know what we want, what we like, what works... and we do it. So, we may not do it everyday anymore, but when we do, it's spectacular!

To those of you rounding the bend, heading toward 30... something... Look out, because it's a wild ride!