Some like it rough...

 The UTIMI; Under the Bed Bondage Restraint System showed up in my mail... So, I just HAD to try it!!! Do you blame me? Seriously--- I'm sure you'd have done the same thing.

This restraint system is a little too industrial for me. Don't get me wrong, it's amazing, but I prefer the softer (faux fur lined) cuffs. So, these are just a little too rough for my liking. 
UTIMI utilized a hook & loop type closure system for this restraint system, rather than Velcro. I find this to be much more intimidating, as it's ridiculously difficult (nearly impossible) to get out of on your own. The straps themselves are broad, and made of tightly woven nylon threads. I don't foresee anyone breaking loose from these restraints any time soon! 

How it works: 

My husband and I found that placing the entire system under the box spring and mattress, and pulling the 4 straps out, was the most effective way to install the UTIMI; Under the Bed Bondage Restraint System. Going directly under the bed was definitely easier, but it left the straps with entirely too much give. The whole point of using a restraint system, it to keep a person restrained in one position. If there's too much give on the straps, you can easily move around, which defeats the whole purpose. On the other hand, you could go just below the mattress... Unfortunately that has a similar outcome. There's entirely too much slack in this position, and there's no actual restraining at this point. Under both box spring and mattress seemed to have the most desired effect for us.

Once you have the installation of the  UTIMI; Under the Bed Bondage Restraint System complete, feel free to give the cuffs a try. Good luck getting out! This restraint system, while not constructed of rope or chain, is rather heavy duty. 
I received my set up, complimentary, to test and review. I feel that this particular restraint system is  most definitely geared more toward those who are into rougher, more hard core bondage. If you're into softer, sexier, S&M style restraints, UTIMI has a set up for that too!

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O M G - Spot!

This vibe joins the ranks of the small, and somewhat, mighty.




Somewhat--- because it definitely has some oomph, and gets the job done, but it's not quite up to par with it's more expensive competitors. However, for those of us on a budget, the UTIMI 10- frequency g-spot vibe is a great choice!



About the product:
The UTIMI 10- frequency g-spot vibe is slender enough to fit anyone, and tapered with a slight bend, for g-spot stimulation. This vibe also has 10 variable speeds and sensations, so you can rotate through and find what works best for you!


How it works:
UTIMI created this 10- frequency g-spot vibe to serve a purpose. The purpose it serves is to provide g-spot stimulation to whoever uses it... In hopes of providing amazing g-spot orgasms with each use. 

And it does...

I received this product complimentary, for testing and review purposes, and I found it to be very successful at providing pleasure!

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The REAL sex ed... How to choose the right dildo

Looking for a guide on how to choose the right dildo? 

You're in the right place! 

Sex toys can be extremely intimidating. There's so many options to choose from --- dildos, vibrators, clitoris stimulators, anal toys... With so many different types of toys out there, let's focus on the basics for now.

Dildos are non-vibrating, replicas of  penises. They come in a million different sizes, shapes, colors, and textures. Plus, there are different materials and firmness options to explore as well... Not everyone enjoys a 12 inch, semi-dense, green, silicone penis. In fact, the whole process of selecting the right dildo can be quite frustrating, because of all of the options available. However, don't' let the overwhelming amount of options scare you away from your good time.

The Good Vibrations "How To" on choosing the right dildo is extremely insightful, and takes a lot of the frustration out of the process.

Check it out...

Good Vibrations Sex Ed Series: How to Choose a Dildo.

Hello Sailor! Lube

Hello Sailor is an amazing new product from Mano and Mano. I thought I was in-love when I discovered their Nooky Lube... But this product is even better!

Hello Sailor is a water based lubricant. It doesn't leave behind any greasy residue, and washes away with little effort. The viscosity of this lube is amazing! It doesn't dry up and get tacky, but stays slippery for a long while! My husband and I have thoroughly enjoyed reviewing this product, courtesy of Mano and Mano.

Not only is Hello Sailor an awesome product, it also comes in a really stylish pump top bottle. You can leave the bottle as is, or remove the label if youre looking for something more discrete. 

Lube -Personal Water Based - Hello Sailor 16ozTM - Made in USA - 100% Unconditional Money Back

Lulu Lube

Mano and Mano are one of the best companies when it comes to water based, chemical free personal lubricants. I've tested many of their products (complimentary) for quality and review purposes, including this--- their newest addition--- Lulu. 

 

This lube doesn't disappoint! It's on the thicker side, and a little bit goes a very long way! It is super easy to clean up, and leaves no residue or super sticky mess behind. Plus, it comes in the cutest bottle!!! The bottle alone screams "feminine!" Which is just what it was meant to be --- a feminine lubricant for use with adult novelty "toys". And it gets the job done--- extremely well might I add! If you're not into a thicker lube, I'd suggest Mano and Mano's "Hello Sailor."

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Nooky Lube

My husband and I were very excited when this arrived at our door step... on a Sunday... Ha! We actually were kind of excited to try this product out. We have had a rough time finding lubricants that we enjoy using. You know... the kind that aren't sticky, too thick, greasy, or impossible to wash off. After reading up on Nooky Lube, we decided to give it a try! And as an added bonus, it comes in a size that most lubricants don't --- 16oz! AND it has a super convenient pump top cap! Anyhow, after a trial run, or two... or three ;) we concluded that this lube isn't too shabby! We love just about everything about it. Notice I didnt say "Everything". The issue we had with the Nooky Lube was that it dried up kind of quickly and that's when it got sticky/gummy. This was easily fixed by adding a small amount of water to the drying lube, but it was a small inconvenience at the time ;) I think if this product was slightly "Thinner", it would definitely warrant all 5 of those stars. I wish I could give it the full 4.5 stars it deserves!

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C of love --- shapes for the mood!

The box says "Pretty Love", but I say pretty please...
After trying this dual g-spot massager, I am hooked. It's definitely NOT the size of the boat ladies! The C-Shape vibe by UTIMI is a small force to be reckoned with... Batten down the hatches, a storms a brewin'! 

Upon first glance, I was slightly off put by this product. It's pretty small, and the strange shape threw me for a loop! Then, I couldn't figure out how to turn it on... Or get it going. Trial and error finally brought me to the long awaited "Voila!" moment. Hint: The vibe itself is USB charged (there's a small hole/ port in the end to hook up to the USB adaptor for charging), while the remote is battery operated (2AAA batteries needed, and no batteries are not included!)

Now, I'll be completely honest--- I still had no clue what I was doing. I'm an old pro when it comes to dildos and vibrators... But this, this thoroughly confused me! Does it go in the vagina and then also on the clitoris? Or is is vaginal and anal? The answer: Yes. Seriously. Use it however you want, and whichever way feels best... That's the right way! 

I personally prefer vaginal and anal. I'm a hands on kind of gal', and a 3-in-1 is right up my alley! No pun intended...

Now, this vibe is very strong, and features 30 different speeds and pulses. BUT, to use them you have to have the remote! The entire operation is managed by the remote control. Lose that, and you're S.O.L. I personally have never been into remote operated toys, but I've definitely changed my mind after taking the C-Shape By UTIMI for a test drive! 



Pros: 

You can control EVERYTHING, which is great for finding your setting and staying put.

You can also hand the remote off to a partner, and let them take control of your orgasm... This, I highly recommend! 

Lastly, if you have a partner, it's a great time to experiment with some bondage! Cuffs and ties --- you won't be able to do anything but wriggle around and enjoy every wave of pleasure!

Cons:

It requires batteries! BUT --- Only for the remote!!! The vibe is USB chargeable!
Now, this is a minor annoyance, but totally doable.

If you lose the remote, you're vibe is useless. 100% Useless. 

You may have a d-bag partner who ties you up and then leaves for hours... I recommend only getting into compromising sexual positions with someone you trust explicitly!

Honestly, aside from losing the remote, and the batteries... there aren't any real cons. 

The C-Shape vibe by UTIMI was gifted to me, for testing and review purposes. It not only gets my seal of approval, it also gets my husbands! BTW: only 2 toys now have ever gotten his seal of approval! So this is a BIG deal!!! After the first use, he looked at me and said "Oh yeah, this ones a keeper!" 
If you're curious, even a little bit... I say go for it! What have you got to lose? I'm positive you'll be pleasantly surprised...

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S&M--- Leather Penis & Scrotum Strap

Because of bad weather, I had to wait extra long for this to arrive. 

But --- good things come to those who wait! 

First and foremost, I'd like to mention that this runs small. Either that, or it is made for men with very small testicles. That being said... It was a chore to put on the first time I tried. However, my husband is a ridiculously good sport, and winced though my pushing and pulling like a true champ! 

Once it was in place, I stood back to marvel my handy work, and all I could think was "this is really freakin' sexy!" There was not enough room for all of the parts to be held in snugly, without cutting off circulation (on the largest setting--- I told you it runs small!), so we opted for a modified fit that allowed for testicular spillage (my husbands balls experienced the feeling of "lift & separate".) It worked out well, and my husband didn't have to lose a testicle--- all's fair in love and war rigt?!? Ha! Anyhow, what came next was the best part!!! Within just a minute of putting this leather penis and scrotum strap on my husband, I noticed that he was getting quite hard! 

Another tip: please please please save yourself a ton of frustration, and make sure your penis is erect BEFORE you start! I didn't think about this until AFTER!!! It would have been much easier. 
Moving on--- as my husband got harder, the strap got a little tighter, and he started to get really thick! I wouldn't classify this product as a cock ring, ever. But, it acted just the same... His penis maintained adequate blood flow, but it was visibly thicker than usual. To be honest, it was really a turn on for me! My husband has a sexy penis to begin with, but seeing his balls bound, and his shaft getting super thick--- it did wonderous things for my libido! 
Over all, it was a learning experience for us, but we thoroughly enjoyed it. In fact, I highly recommend that everyone try this... It's very arousing! My husband and I both rate this with 5 stars & two thumbs up! This is by far one of the best products we have received complimentary, for testing and review purposes! 

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Enjoying anal sex (Education; How To)

So you've decided to try anal sex...

Or maybe you're thinking about trying it???

Either way, there's a few things you should definitely know before jumping in feet first.

Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable, but it can also be terribly painful if proper precautions aren't taken.

My advice:

1. Always use an ample amount of lube! No one enjoys a torn sphincter!
2. Get comfortable--- the more comfortable you are, the less likely you are to tense up.

3. RELAX! I any stress it enough--- RELAX!!! When you're tense, so are your muscles. This could lead to serious pain or damage... So relax and enjoy yourself!

See what experts have to say.
Get educated on anal sex...
See the link below for some seriously enlightening information!

Good Vibrations Sex Ed Series: How to Enjoy Anal Sex.