Dirty little secrets...

We all have them. They're those juicy tidbits that show our true colors. Some of us have a few small ones, and others should rent a storage unit for theirs!
Heck, I have 2 rental units for mine!

Don't act innocent...

Recently, I was actually reminded of a few of mine, and it really got me thinking... One thought led to another, and eventually I found myself yearning to relive some of my glory days. Let's face it, I'm still a freak, but back then... OMG. Talk about needing a cold shower! Those nights were so steamy, even now, I still blush just thinking about it.

My favorite dirty little secrets are actually small moments. However, they were freaking fantastic! In fact --- I used to love having sex anywhere & everywhere. When the urge arose, I was all for taking a gamble with indecent exposure charges! I've only ever met one person who could keep up with my desires, and man did we have some fun! It was sexy, and exciting. I think that's what I miss the most... The feeling that I got out of it.

Feel like sharing some of your dirty little secrets? Don't be shy... Use a fake name if you want! Leave your steamy stories in the comments!!!

The best one just might win a gift card...

Put a little zing in your man's sting!

There's nothing sweeter than receiving satisfaction from your honey, unless your honey uses Honey Bee Hard before hand...

This stuff is pure genius!

Its all natural, and specially formulated to not only smell & taste amazing, but to give your man a boost in the bedroom. Have issues with maintaining or sustaining an erection? This honey's for you! It also helps to bump desire and drive, by using herbal remedies like B vitamins, yohimbe, and maca. Its safe to use, and leaves your lover tasting like a sweet treat!

Each package includes 6 vials of this special, amped up zinger. Neatly capped, and packed in a pocket size tin. Its sure to get a rise out of any man's stinger... The effects are best if the sweet, sticky stuff is consumed daily --- it builds up in the system, and provides regular success vs a one time hit or miss deal.

Like any other supplement, this could have side effects. Be wary of erections that last longer than 4 hours, and definitely ask your doctor if its ok to try! It does work, and has given my husband a delicious sex drive, and the most incredible orgasms. In fact, it has made him sweeter... And I'm not talking personality wise...

As with any supplement, natural product, herbal remedy, etc, everyone will have their own experience. Honey Bee Hard worked for my husband, and I recommend it. We received our first package as a sample for review, and have made it a staple in our home. Try it for yourself!

Honey Bee Hard

Assume the position!

We all have our sexual preferences, what's yours, and what does it say about you?

So --- What's your favorite position?

Missionary   

People who prefer missionary are usually insecure. They need to see their lovers face, and be reassured that they're pleasing them. Want to mix it up a bit? Try putting her legs up over your shoulders. This allows for deeper penetration, and is a great way to keep the intimacy while still spicing things up.

The Spoon
This is a position for lovers. It's a way to cuddle, and enjoy your partner --- while still being sexually intimate. A great way to turn up the heat in this position, is to take a hands on approach ... Ladies, this is a great time to explore your erogenous zones. Bring a mini vibe or bullet along for the ride, or just use your hands. There's nothing wrong with pleasing yourself, and when it's in combination with penetration... Its absolutely amazing!

Girl on Top
This position is for women who like to be in control, and men who love to please their lady. It's an easy way for a woman to do what feels best for her, and for a man to lay back and enjoy the ride. If you're looking to kick it up a notch, try it backwards, reverse cowgirl style. The woman stays in control, but its a different feeling, and it's pretty darn good!

Doggy Style  

This is by far the position that allows for deepest penetration. It's also the best position if you're going to enjoy anal pleasure as well. People who enjoy doggy style most, are serious about sex --- they like to get down, the kinkier, the better. Amp up your animal instincts by bringing a flog into the mix, experiment with spanking, give anal a shot... Ladies, dont be afraid to get your hands dirty... Its the perfect position to lend your partner a hand. Rub your clit, cup his balls, play with your nipples... The sky's the limit!

Standing
Adventurous couples have perfected the art of standing sex. They can do it anywhere, and its exciting if there's a chance they may be caught. If you're daring, do it outside, in front of a window, or even in a public bathroom. I'm not suggesting you catch a case for indecent exposure, but if you like to take risks, it's a thrilling way to get your rocks off.

Are you the missionary man, the doting lover, the domineering she wolf, the super freak, or the thrill seeker?

I'm a super freak, all the way. Don't get me wrong, I also love a wild adventure, but I've always had a deep fondness for doggy style. It's the only position where you can literally explore every sexual avenue, at the same time!

Next time you have sex, try mixing it up. Add some variety and spice into the mix. I bet you'll discover that you like taking a walk on the wild side...

Tongues can be fun ---

This is a really fun idea! Unfortunately, it falls quite a bit short on the wow factor... I like to thoroughly test products, before recommending them, or even labelling them as a dud. However, this product falls in between the two extremes. It's not terrible, but it's not my favorite.

Does it get the job done? Yes. But --- it requires a bit of effort, and I lost interest in it. It does feature multiple speeds, and functions. The included egg, is the key to getting off though... The tongue itself, is on the rough side, and doesn't have enough power to really get things going. The egg, however, picks up the slack... In combination, it's not bad at all! But --- too much work, in my opinion. 

Size wise, its awesome. Its perfect for solo use, or with a partner. The controls are easy to use, and respond quickly. I like that the base is shaped perfectly for holding, and it's lightweight. It does require batteries, which are not included ---- and, it drains them quickly. Because of this alone, I am not a fan... The performance flop... that's a close second! 

Would I recommended it? Probably not. I wasn't impressed with it, and found it to be uncomfortable & boring. Definitely not the combination you're looking for when trying to achieve a decent orgasm.

Sorry ladies, but this one is not worth your time...

Sample provided for review.

Basic, but awesome!

So, you've decided you're not looking for something that moves, makes noise, or cheers you on while you reach your climax... Cool. There's a dildo for that! It's called the Siren. It's a basic, no frills, rubber lover --- and its freaking fantastic!

The Siren is roughly the same shape and size as the average penis. However, it does have a slightly more pronounced head. This allows for better angling toward that ever elusive g-spot... Which, by the way, is usually located behind the clitoris. In order to reach that soft, sweet spot, you'll need something that's angled slightly. Once you find it, you'll never need help again...

Anyhow, the average penis is around 5 and a half inches long, the siren is approximately 8 inches from the tip to the bottom of the base. Which, is slightly larger than average... It's also decently propotioned in circumfrence. In fact, it's quite a hand full... For comparison sake, I've photographed it beside a standard 7 inch tablet.

This rubber dildo is pretty stiff, and will not bend easily. Because its on a broad base, it's perfectly suited for solo sessions while squatting down. However, I feel that it's best when put to use with a partner, a-la strap on. I'm not well versed in this area, but I'm assured that it's amazing! As for solo sessions, I guarantee it'll knock your socks off!

Check it out...

Sample provided for review.

Punishment never felt so good!

Check out my beautiful new bondage system...

This restraint system is similar to one that I had tried previously, the UTIMI; Under the Bed Bondage Restraint System. That bondage system was a bit too rough around the edges for me, so my good friend at LoveBar sent me another to try out... the Utimi Lint Combination Under the Bed Bondage Restraints System.

 This is much more my style!

Ok, so I'm a freak, but I also love sensuality & comfort. My last restraint system was intimidating and a bit too industrial for my liking. This set, is perfect though... The cuffs are "fur" lined, and feature Velcro closures. Although these are are softer features than my previous set-up had, the straps themselves are still the same broad, tightly woven nylon threads. 

How it works: 

The set up for this system is identical to the previous. The mkst effective method of installation being; placing the entire system under the box spring and mattress, and pulling the 4 straps out. Going under the bed, as directed, was definitely easier, but it left the straps with entirely too much give. As I said before, "The whole point of using a restraint system, is to keep a person restrained in one position. If there's too much give on the straps, you can easily move around, and that defeats the whole purpose."

I feel that this particular restraint system is  most definitely geared more toward those who are into the softer, sexier, S&M style bondage. However, if you like the rougher, more hard core bondage, UTIMI definitely has a set up for that too!

UTIMI Bondage Kit 

Sample provided for review. 

Sex after 30; The in's & outs

OK, it's no longer a secret, we all know that 30 is the new 20. However, those old rumors about losing your sexuality, and no longer having a drive or desire for sex after 30, are still running rampant. In fact, it's a common misconception among young people, that women 30+ have " lost that loving feeling".

Apparently, the opposite is rumored of men. Men, it's said, have double the libido after age 30... In my experience, it's actually the exact opposite! Men slow down, and ladies, we get buck wild... That's why it's the dirty 30's. Of course, there are exceptions to every rule, so if you're following the trend--- thats perfectly ok too! Do what makes you feel good!

So, what about married couples? Yes, it's true, after some time we all slow down. That's normal! After a few years, you know your partner. You know what works for them, and when you do it... You do it big. Honestly, this is when it really is all about quality, not necessarily quantity.

Yes --- sex gets better with age! We become more comfortable in our own skin, and more in tune with our inner workings. We know what we want, what we like, what works... and we do it. So, we may not do it everyday anymore, but when we do, it's spectacular!

To those of you rounding the bend, heading toward 30... something... Look out, because it's a wild ride!

Ladies, get ready to get off...

O.M.G.

First and foremost, leave your opinions at the door, and try this without preconceived notion. The size is intimidating. Sure. It kind of freaked me out at first... But it's a very soft, silicone product, and feels absolutely amazing!

I do recommend using a lubricant with this item! As for design, this vibrator is most definitely made with the utmost pleasure in mind. The head is realisticly shaped, and features small nubs on the underside, for a heightened experience.

The shaft is thick, and offers large ballbearing rotation, for an amazing massaging feeling. The bunny is positioned well, and has soft silicone ears, so it reaches the right spot & is delicate. I hate when bunny style vibes have hard ears... It's uncomfortable, and can even be painful! This item however, is the opposite, and is extremely gentle on your most sensitive parts.

The motor functions are perfect. The vibe and bunny are powered separately, and have their own speed and vibration functions. However, they can be used simultaneously, for a more intense experience!

I'm well versed in vibrator use, and super opinionated when it comes to my pleasure. This bunny vibe by Bombex, is exceptionally impressive, and I'm surprised at its low cost.

This is one of a very few adult pleasure products that truly makes me climb the walls, and scream in extacy. It gives amazing, intense, orgasms! My only complaint is that it requires batteries. Which, isn't that big a deal... I just prefer items that are USB rechargeable. I received this vibe complimentary, to test and review. I highly recommend it, it's absolutely amazing!!!

  Bombex Fantasy Impress: Rabbit Vibrator 

Tie me up & make me moan

Oh how naughty I've been...

This bondage set by UTIMI is absolute heaven! It has everything you could want... Collar, cuffs, rope, nipple clamps, feathers, a flog, and a ball gag... Plus a few extra goodies!



All of the items included are made of high quality materials, and are made explicitly for "novelty purposes". Also, the leopard print is super cute & fun! 

My husband and I have had so much fun experimenting with this bondage set. My favorite items are the cuffs & the flog! The cuffs are lined for comfort, and the flog is supple, but gives a nice quick sting. It's surprising, but not terribly painful. 

Flogging is super erotic, if you ask me! I'm not a huge fan of the ball gag though. It's not the product itself, it's personal preference. My husband, he loves the whole set--- he's the dominant one. He especially likes to use the cuffs and ties with our existing under the bed restraint system. I happily oblige!

We received this bondage kit by UTIMI as a gift, to test and review. I've been wanting a set like this for a long time... Now that I have one, I'm not sure what I'm going to want next... Any suggestions???

Vibrating wand...

Absolutely amazing...
This "massager" is fantastic!
Yes, it works fine as a massager... In fact, I used it on my shoulders & neck, and was quite surprised at how well it worked the knots out of my muscles. However, that's not the only use for it...

My husband and I experimented with this toy, as it's completely different than our usual toys of choice. First, let me say that this toy is super strong... It has many speed & vibration settings. Some settings are clearly meant for shoulders, as they could be overwhelming if used sexually. This wand is also rechargeable, which is my absolute favorite type! I hate searching for batteries at the last minute. Anyhow, I promise you won't be disappointed, as this toy has a setting that's sure to please everyone! Plus, it feels amazing anywhere you put it... I personally find it to be most pleasurable when used in a gentle stroking motion, between my clitors & vaina. This toy was sent to me, complimentary, to test and review. I can honestly say that I am beyond impressed with its' performance!

Utimi USB Charging Powerful 10-Frequency AV Vibrator 

Anal training...

If you're looking for a way to successfully transition, or ease into anal sex, this product is for you! These anal trainers by Healthy

Vibes, come in 3 sizes (small, medium, & large) and work fantastically well at preparing your sphincter for penetration! They're also rather enjoyable on their own, when used as plugs (in addition to vaginal intercourse), and help to heighten sexual encounters. However, the traditional use as trainers is easily achieved as well. Start with the smallest, and work your way to the largest! Make sure you use plenty of lubrication though... To the touch, this product is firm, but not hard. It allows for some movement, and that ensures a comfortable experience. They're also durable, &

clean easily with antibacterial soap and hot water! Each trainer also features a pull ring, for easy removal. I received my Heathy Vibes Beginner Anal Trainer set, complimentary, to test and review. My experience with this product was very positive, and I most definitely recommend it to anyone looking to venture into the realm of anal!

Healthy Vibes Beginner Anal Trainer 

G-bulb 8'' Pink G-spot Vibrator

I'm not sure how I feel about this G-spot Vibrator. I like it, but it seems to be missing something... Pink is my favorite color, and its a gorgeous shade of pink... That's a huge bonus! The functionality of the vibrator is decent, albeit a little too weak for my liking. However, it's perfect for a long, slow solo session. It definitely gets the job done, it just takes the scenic route to get there! I like my vibes to be a little more aggressive. This was definitely my first experience with a slower toy, and I liked it... But, I don't think it will be a regular use item for me. I received this item complimentary, to test and review. I definitely recommend this product to anyone who like slow and steady, with a soft, sweet finish! It's definitely a lover, not a fighter! 

Healthy Vibes G-bulb 8'' Pink G-spot Vibrator

Healthy Vibes Intimate Personal Lubricant

Feels like water, lubricates like magic! This lube is perfect for every use... Some lubes are too thick for vaginal intercourse, but perfect for anal. Others are too thin for anal, but perfectly suited for vaginal use. I myself prefer a thinner lube, that's not greasy, and washes easily with water. The Healthy Vibes Personal Lubricant is a healthy in between. It's definitely a thinner lube, but not so thin that you need a different product if you decide to switch to anal. Its also not very thick at all... So, when used for vaginal intercourse, you still feel everything, and don't have to worry about a gooey insulated mess! It washes off easily, and leave no residue behind. In my opinion, its perfect!
I received a complimentary sample bottle, to test and review, and I'm highly impressed with the quality of the product. I most definitely recommend this lubricant to anyone looking for just the right mix for all uses!

Healthy Vibes Intimate Personal Lubricant 

Choosing a Vibrator

Choosing the right vibrator can be a seriously daunting task. With so many choices out there, it's hard to make the " right" decision. In fact, it can be down right intimidating... What size do you want? Color? Shape? Do you like ball

 bearings? How about studs or prongs? Bunnies & butterflies? Multiple speeds? Multiple functions? Way too many choices...
When I bought my first vibrator, it was a nightmare! I was super inexperienced, and went into an adult super store with some friends. The clerk was very friendly, and eager to help. She asked me about size and shape etc, then she asked about dual functionality... What?!? That's when I learned that vibrators could have additional appendages for anal stimulation as well... How the hell should I know, lady?!? This is my first vibraor... I didn't even know they came like this! Ughhhhh.

 Finally, a friend showed me some simple options, and it became less frustrating. I'll never forget the experience though! In an effort to save others from similar experiences, I suggest clicking the link pasted below. It will take you to a free & discreet, sex ed course on choosing the right vibrator. As always, I suggest you get to know your body, your likes & dislikes, etc. That will aid you in choosing the perfect toy!

No one wants to pick the wrong vibrator... They can be quite expensive, and are non-refundable!

Good Vibrations Sex Ed Series: 

How to Choose a Vibrator.

Balls of steel!

Sooooooo...
Not gonna lie--- at first glance, these are kinda intimidating! They're rather large, and pretty heavy. However, I was immediately impressed

 by the quality of these stainless steel anal beads. They're seamless, and extremely well made. Knowing they were a quality item set my mind a little more at ease. The size was all that was left to conquer! 
My husband was teasing me about these beads. Taunting, if you will. Since I was given the beads as a gift, to test and review... I have to test them out! On the 2nd day of being overly intimidated by them, I gave up. The beads ha won! Go big or go home---- Ughhh --- I went home.

My husband, however, wouldn't let me give up so easily! The following evening, he surprised me with the beads. From behind. Mmmmhmmmm... Let me just say, they're rather enjoyable! There's nothing quite like the feel of cold stainless on your backside..... They're an entirely different feeling from the silicone beads. They're large, but super smooth--- not painful. Also, the metal is cool, but it warms to your body quickly! Plus, they're heavier than

 what I'm used to. But, they're nice, and they do feel good! I definitely recommend them to anyone looking for something different, and kinky! These beads are sure to satisfy the freak in anyone!

Utimi Stainless Steel Beads